Let me share with you an anon story I once read about a man who was so concerned about his wife.
Bace! bace! Jgn x bace.
There was once a man who felt that his wife was having a bit of hearing problem. Trying to spare her feelings, he secretly decided to meet their family doctor suggested that the husband used the easiest and oldest technique to test his wife's problem. That technique would be able to tell the doctor of how bad is the wife's hearing loss.
(What kind of technique ha? ok ok continue..)
"You have to stand about 40 feet away from her and have a normal chit chat with her using your normal voice and tone. If she could not hear you, come closer to 30 feet. If she still couldn't hear you, do it at 20 feet and continue until she could hear you".
"Sounds easy", said the man delightfully. So, later that day, when his wife was preparing dinner, he estimated his distance from his wife.
40 feet. "yup, this is about that", he whispered to himself.
"What are we having for dinner, honey?", he asked, using the normal voice tone.
She didn't answer.
So, he came closer.
30 feet..he estimated carefully.
Again, he asked, "What are we having for dinner, honey?"
Still no response.
"Wow, this is bad", he said to himself while moving into 20 feet from the wife. Again there was no response.
(Pekak yg dasyat ni.)
He continued and became so close to her that he was just standing beside her when he asked, "Honey, what's for dinner?"
His wife turned to him and said,
"For goodness sake, for the seventh time my dear. I said it is CHICKEN!"
I almost fell of my chair gelak-gelak when I first read this joke! (aksi jatuh kerusi x berlaku pun. tipu je)
yup, ape yang anda sangka?
All the while the dear hubby thought that his wife yang ade hearing problem. Turned out, it was telinga dia sendiri that needed checking.
So, moral of the story?
Kite tak boleh main tuduh je orang lain yang salah dimana yang sebenarnya kesalahan itu adalah kesalahan diri kita sendiri